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The 3 P’s of good relationships

Do you want a great relationship? Are you still struggling to figure it out? Do you wonder why everything is going wrong, again? Well read on as I have 3Ps and 5 quotes about relationships that could change your life, if you let them, that is.

Naturally, this relationship advice is more for my benefit than yours: you might think it’s a bunch of hogwash and all. As always, listen to what I have to say, see how you feel and use what works, let go of the rest. This is YOUR life, not mine, after all…

So let the show begin!

“The most important thing in life is learning to give love and letting it in.” –Morrie Schwartz

Now I have no idea who Morrie Schwartz is (sorry Morrie!) but he’s got something here with this wisdom, he really is. Learning to let love in and give it away is a job we could all do if we were more committed, from now until the day we die.

Most of us just don’t know how to love like this. But any relationship, and I mean ANY relationship, would benefit profoundly if just one person in that relationship was more capable of loving (and letting love in) more.

So how do we do this, Morrie? How do we do this, Steve?

Good, these 3 P’s come to mind: Presence, Patience, and Power. And I’d like to talk about each of these P’s in turn, to help you make the most of the relationship you’re in (or to help you empower yourself to make your next relationship the best it can be)…

* P is for Presence

“We are on a journey to become what we already are. That is the impossible paradox of our lives.” –Leonard Jacobson

The presence is powerful, the presence is pleasant, the presence is powerful. But more important than all those P’s, presence is being who we are, in the moment.

When you’re present at the work you’re doing right now, for example, you do a better job: no distractions, no daydreaming, just dedicated, focused actions. Now.

When you are present to the feelings that are swirling around you right now, you do a better job of being yourself: you notice your moods (good or bad) more and are much less likely to act on them (especially the bad ones). bad). .

And when you are present to your lover, your spouse, your partner, they feel the full force of your attention, your energies… your presence!

The presence is understood by many, but it eludes everyone, at least most of the time. Presence requires checking again, moment by moment by moment. Presence is you being You, and it is a powerful aphrodisiac for all that is enjoyed in life.

Presence allows you to truly be yourself, and there can be no more powerful force in your world than yourself!

* P is for Patience

“Infinite patience brings immediate results.” –Wayne Dyer

Oh, to be infinitely patient, to know that what you want will come if you wait long enough! Hard things to do, not make mistakes, but we can still start, right?, by being MORE patient.

After all, isn’t that person you love with all your heart doing the best they can right now? Don’t they love you too, with all that they are?

How beautiful it would be, then, to give that person a space; to let them grow into the person you know they are, no pressure, just space.

The power of a moment of silence, as it were, placed on top of another moment of silence, then another, and another…

Patience is a very empowering force: it enables EVERYONE who participates in it, everyone who plays along. Can anything be more powerful than ‘say it once and leave it alone’? Can anything have more presence? Can anything have more potential?

Patience. Potential patience. Practice it now, if you wish, on yourself: be patient with your impatience and see how liberating it is to feel that space. Then imagine how your partner would feel receiving such a blessed gift.

* P is for power

“What you seek is what you seek.” — San Francisco de Asis

It’s a funny thing about power, but most of us don’t realize how powerful we really are. And I’m not necessarily referring to spiritual power here, who we really are, just everyday personal power, fully realized, is enough to change the dynamic in any relationship, it’s enough to wake things up a bit. .

What do I mean, here? Well, I mean that the incessant discussion, that ‘trying’, that irritates you so much, is nothing more than admitting that you feel powerless before the other person. Yes, our irritations are an admission that this matters to us, and we feel powerless to do anything about it, so we do what we can, instead: we lash out.

And why does this realization matter? Well, it helps you realize that the conflict, or disharmony, or whatever the ‘problem’ is in your relationship, is actually a cry for help, rather than a direct attack on you because you don’t you are worthy

YOU ARE worthy, and they feel frustrated, scared, weak. (Or it could be the other way around.) You are being attacked (or are attacking) because they (you) feel less powerful than you (them).

It means it’s time to wake up to the power you can wield here, it’s time to stop feeling like the victim and realize that you have a lot more to say in this conflict-ridden setting than you originally imagined.

This realization of his powerlessness tells you that the answer lies in exercising your (loving) power, wherever you can find it, rather than putting your energies into defending yourself.

You are powerful and, yes, you are powerful too. Use your powers wisely, understand them and you will allow any unstable relationship to be more than it currently is.

“Being in a relationship is a full-time job, so don’t apply if you’re not ready.” — A stranger

This latest inspirational relationship quote might sound a bit harsh, but it makes a fair point. However, as I hope I have shown above, the ‘work’ involved will not cost us too much.

In fact, practicing these 3 P’s in our everyday lives, as well as in our relationships, could probably make our life as good as it could be as well.

Presence allows the new, whether it is a new moment or a new aspect in a person, there simply cannot be boredom when the presence is present. power is attractive in both men and women, especially when that power is simply being who you are. AND patience allows presence and power to do their thingwhen they are ready to be received…

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