The first date is the most important date plain and simple. It’s your only chance to make that lasting first impression and the only outfit you’ll remember for years to come. Appearance plays a very important role in the first impression. Most women will go through their closet once, if not twice, for the perfect outfit that screams at them from beyond the mirror, “I’m the one, wear me! I’m perfect.” Women spend a lot of time deciding what clothes to wear, but twice as much time is involved in the lingerie thought process. In reality, it’s such a contentious decision that you can almost stress about it.
Underwear for a first date can be very tricky. You don’t want to look like you were dressed for the occasion and planned for him to take a look at your perfectly matching underwear; however, you want to make sure you are well prepared if he really does. Men want women to look sexy without knowing they tried too hard. Many women will naturally gravitate towards black lingerie because it is the safe and sexy option. This may or may not work for you. Some men will automatically love it and won’t think twice about it, but others think black lingerie and sex pop right into their brain. If they see that you’ve chosen to wear black lingerie on a first date, they may get the impression that you definitely planned for that moment to happen.
Matching lingerie is essential. While you don’t want it to look like you’ve given it a lot of thought, you also don’t want to look like a train wreck. Most men prefer underwear that is simple and feminine. Items of color, pattern, and that cute bow are great. The lingerie you choose for a first date can also depend on the date. If she’s taking you skiing or possibly to a barbecue or somewhere very casual, then you probably want to go for very simple but pretty lingerie or else you’ll definitely look like you’ve tried too hard. Men love boy shorts, so for casual dates, why not try a cute pair of cotton shorts with a matching bra? You can wear a matching set with stripes, polka dots, butterflies and fun vibrant colors to show off your flirty side.
For a more traditional date like dinner or a show, you may need to glam it up a bit. Chances are, cotton is probably not acceptable in this situation. A bit of lace or satin would be nice. Silver, burgundy and navy blue tones add elegance. You want to look like a sexy woman under those clothes, but it is not an easy task to have the privilege of seeing.
Whatever you wear, you need to feel comfortable. Using it in the house first helps a little, it is recommended to sit and stand. You don’t want a pair of panties that ride on you every time you move, and you don’t want a bra that falls off when you bend over. Try on your lingerie for movement and make sure it works for you. If you feel sexy under your clothes, it will shine. There’s nothing sexier than a confident woman and knowing what’s under your clothes can give you that extra push to make the perfect first impression.
