Although a man has been given the gift of life, that does not mean that he sees life as a gift. If you were asked to share his thoughts on life, you might say that it is more of a curse than a gift.

But, even if this wasn’t something that was going to come out of her mouth, it might be what would if she were able to articulate her experience. Either way, what this goes to show is that he doesn’t live a life filled with joy, pleasure, love, and connection.

a troubled existence

In general, he could feel depressed and even very depressed, making it a challenge for him to get out of bed. During these moments, he may not be able to think of a reason to get up.

What might make you move is the fear of what will happen if you don’t get out of bed and get moving. So this could show that you fear losing your job if you stay where you were.

going through the motions

However, this might not be a job that brings you any level of satisfaction; I might find it soul-destroying. It could be a job that doesn’t require a lot of thought, so it could work on autopilot most of the day.

Other than the money and maybe the human connection, you won’t do much for him. When you’re there, you might look forward to the end of the day and maybe the weekend, if you only work during the week.

Zone out

When you have free time, you may not make the most of the free time you have. So this will mean that you will not do what you can to improve your life in any way, you can only participate in different escapes.

So you might watch a lot of TV, eat a lot of junk food, and spend time with people who are very similar. From the outside, it may seem that he is wasting his life, but he won’t want to be here anyway, so he won’t appreciate his life or himself.

another reality

When a man experiences life in this way, it could be said that he has given in to how he feels. However, even if a man is like that, it does not mean that he will not do everything possible to run away from what happens to him.

Consequently, you will rely on your willpower to propel you forward, and this can allow you to appear the opposite of who you really are. Still, this is not to say that this is something that will happen consciously, as it may be something that happens unconsciously.

a different answer

What this means, then, is that if the man above spends a lot of time on his parasympathetic nervous system, this man spends a lot of time on his sympathetic nervous system. The former will often be in a passive and helpless state and the latter will spend a lot of time in an active and hopeful state.

Thanks to this, you usually won’t have a hard time getting out of bed and grabbing life by the horns, so to speak. You could have a satisfying job, spend a lot of time ‘developing’, and have several friends.

A step

However, from time to time something can happen that knocks you off your feet and you have a hard time getting out of bed. When this happens, he will be almost identical to the other man.

It will be like an inflatable toy that has been pricked by a needle; will be on your knees It will be as if you have a power button on your back and this button has been pressed.

The trigger

As for why he will be like this, it could show that he has experienced some kind of setback. For example, he may have been rejected, had a breakup, was fired, or was unable to achieve a certain goal.

What this probably illustrates is that while he will appear to be very different from the man mentioned above, he only has the ability to keep his true feelings or inner reality at bay. Once he breaks through this superficial level, he will fall into what he has been trying so hard to avoid.

A brutal experience

Regardless of whether a man is always depressed or falls down from time to time, once the power of his mind is no longer enough and his defenses are broken, he will not have the will to live. He will be in a lot of pain and will not be able to see a way out.

Calling it a day and ending his life may be seen as the only way he can break free of the emotional hell he finds himself in. At this point, it may seem strange why he would feel this way.

What’s going on?

What this might show is that his early years weren’t very enriching, this being a time when he was physically hurt by his father. The person he would have looked to to love, protect, and guide him would have deeply traumatized him.

To top it off, he wouldn’t have been able to counterattack or defend himself and he wouldn’t have been able to escape. He simply had to tolerate what was happening and he would have lost the will or desire to be alive.

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a natural result

However, if this is what was occurring in your home, an environment in which you were supposed to be safe and cared for, it is not a surprise. To handle what was happening, a part of him would have died.

Then he would have been physically there, but a large part of his being would have given up. Now that he is an adult, what he was will now be an internal part of him and he will be like a heavyweight.

Awareness

If a man can relate to this and is ready to change his life, he may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.