What is the difference between world-class athletes and the rest of us?
Inherent ability? Luck? DNA? Maybe.
But I guarantee you that the best athletes in the world did not appear on the court one day and dominate. Most of the time, the guys and gals who are the best are the ones who practice the most.
Sure, if you have some basic coordination skills, decent size, and speed, you’d do better than most in most sports.
but just a little? Maybe enough to start a high school team. Not enough to be a world class athlete.
To be a world-class athlete, you must make a decision that is the most important thing in your life.
But what does that mean, exactly? (Sounds like a silly law of attraction statement)
What it means is that you practice. Much.
Tiger Woods became a world-class golfer not because of his inherent skill or luck or because of having a tough father.
Sure, they helped. But the ONE THING that was crucial to his success was practice.
Daily practice, consistent, overwhelmingly boring mind.
Do you want to be a world class golfer? You have to hit thousands of balls on the driving range.
Each. Unique. Day.
Do you want to be a world class boxer? You have to spend hours in the gym, working on technique and endurance until you can barely stand.
The same goes for almost any skill.
The bottom line is that if you want to be good at something, you have to practice a lot.
The more you practice, the better you will get.
Seduction is no different.
There are no shortcuts or magic words that will get you to the front of the line.
Unfortunately, many gurus are selling VERY expensive products that claim otherwise. As if you could sit in a seminar for three days and suddenly become a woman killer.
That would be like going to basketball camp for the weekend and thinking you can play for the NBA.
It’s not going to happen.
If you want to become a world-class seducer, or even “good enough” to walk into your local bar or coffee shop and feel confident enough to attract any girl in the room, you’ll need to practice.
Now, here is a question for you.
What if, from now on, you considered EVERY SINGLE INTERACTION with women as ONLY practice?
Like Tiger hitting thousands of balls a day on the driving range?
You would never worry about rejection as it is just practice. You’ll be able to say things you don’t normally say, since it’s just practice. You will be able to “try on” different personalities, since it is just practice.
And guess what? The more you practice, the more you “let go” of any concern about a specific outcome, the more you see it as a “game” rather than any kind of life or death, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to meet your soulmate. the more attractive you will be.
And then the girls will start chasing you.
A FANTASTIC way to “play” is to press all your buttons and step back and see what happens.
