Have you ever gotten intimate with a friend whose best plan to get his ex girlfriend back was to show up at her job with flowers and promise to love her forever? At that moment you really felt bad for him. And at this very moment you find yourself in the same situation. You fully understand how he felt at that moment. However, even though you are able to understand how she must have felt, you don’t want to get your ex back the way she did. If you want to get her back, but you don’t want to lose all of your self-respect, self-respect, and dignity, let me suggest actions you can take.
Understand how women think and what they believe.
Women are very emotional beings. You must appeal to their emotions. Learn to show him love, learn to show him that you care. Women love to communicate. Communicate with her, talk to her openly and honestly. Share, share, share. Ask her about her day and how she felt about the events that took place. Talk to her about how you feel about the relationship. Where do you think she is going and why? She will love you for this. She is a good listener. She doesn’t necessarily want you to solve her problems, but she wants you to LISTEN to her. She wants you to know and appreciate how she feels, she wants you to understand her feelings. She wants love letters, she wants flowers, and most of all she wants your attention. Women believe, if you listen to them, if you are attentive to them and if you support them, that you love them.
admit your mistakes
If you have made mistakes in the past, admit them. Let him know that you admit his mistakes and that you are sorry. Let him know that he will not behave that way in the future. If you have changed from the way you were at the beginning of the relationship, go back to the way you were before you started taking it for granted. At the beginning of the relationship, how many times did he call her a day? How many times in a week did you visit her? Are you still trying to look your best? Do you take her out to eat or do you expect her to cook for you all the time? If you are making these mistakes, own up to them and correct them.
If you feel they have made mistakes in the past, talk to them openly and honestly about them. Don’t point fingers, name names or whine and cry, just speak honestly and let him know how these things made you feel. She will love that. She will love knowing that you have FEELINGS too. Acknowledge her mistakes, but let her know that you love her and forgive her. This will really help you get your ex girlfriend back.
Discover the things you love and love to do
Do you know what their hobbies are? If you don’t find out. Show interest in her hobbies and join her at some of the events related to her hobbies. Invite her to one of the events of your hobbies or activities. This will let her know that you are interested in many facets of her life and that you invite her to share openly in all areas of your life. This “openness” and sharing of it will win you over to her, she will not feel isolated from your life. You have to find nice things to do together outside of bed. After all, you can only spend so much time in bed. Do you want the only time you spend together to be in bed? She will really HATE that. If that’s what the relationship has become, let her know that she intends to change that aspect and you’ll get her ex-girlfriend back.
