When a household suffers the loss of a cat, members of the human family are not the only ones affected. The animal companions left behind are also suffering. Cats are characterized by being creatures of habit, so they do not react favorably to change. They like that today is like yesterday and that tomorrow is like today. If the animal that has died has been sick, it is likely that the companion cat has felt this change. However, if the animal is hit by a car or simply does not return home, this scenario can be more traumatic for those left behind. In either case, they will need time to adjust to the loss.
What kind of behavior can you expect from your cat? You can see signs of depression, sleep more, hide, loss of appetite, loud meows, as well as search for the lost partner and be on call for hours. Some cats even run away. One of my cats spent three days in a guest room standing sentry over the last place he had seen his beloved companion. She only left for a few minutes at a time to see if her partner was hiding somewhere. She also ate little during that time even though supplies were transferred to her.
What can you do for your companion cat in the days immediately following the loss? Since cats are very sensitive to environmental changes, your goal should be to maintain consistency and safety.
- If there is a body for the cat to inspect, some keepers believe this helps the cat understand better.
- If you have a memorial service or burial, include your cat. Let them see what you do and hear what is said. Cats can understand much more than we think.
- Talk gently to your cat and explain what has happened. Assure your cat that you will always provide care.
- Hold and pet your cat for as long as it needs attention. You will feel more secure and calm.
- Continue with regular playtime or special rituals with your cat. The cat is familiar with these activities.
- Avoid changing home routines, such as mealtimes. Maintaining a routine sends a consistent message to the cat.
- Avoid changing cat food brands or rearranging furniture. This is too much change for the accumulated cat in what just happened.
- Avoid adopting a new pet right away, as the cat may think it is being replaced and may run away if given the opportunity.
- Avoid approaching the cat if possible to prevent it from feeling abandoned. If you must travel soon after the loss of a pet, consider having a pet sitter or neighbor take care of the cat. This change in routine is minimized since the cat remains in a familiar familiar environment.
- Be on the lookout for prolonged grief reactions that can lead to medical problems.
Bottom line: Give your cat loving attention!
How has your cat grieved over the loss of a companion?
