The courtship period of two people in love plays a vital role in building a relationship that lasts longer than many civilizations will want to give credit and importance to.

What abounds is falling in love one moment and then living in the next moment. This can be attributed to the easy permissiveness that has permeated the moral fabric of our society and the community we live in, leading to such levels of degradation and moral turpitude that fiction books should present.

Aside from meeting that young man or lady who makes your world go ‘rainbow’ over and over again, melt your heart with the touch of love…there is all the need to get to know each other in a way that is more responsible than the average knowledge that it will suffice for any fleeting knowledge.

Communication in relationship building is such an essential tool that both partners will need to master and deploy at every available opportunity. The moment of courtship presents the couple with a golden opportunity to become familiar with one another.

Courtship is a time when they meet and begin to relate in such a way and on such a level that it will allow them to move from the position of strangers to being close friends.

A mistake that many couples who have been courting since time immemorial make is to spend this period to go on dates such as taking walks in the garden, going to the movies, daydreaming about each other, writing and sending messages of love in the form of cards. , poems, flowers, gifts, etc.

As much as all of this is necessary, many put off until a later time, especially when both of you have finally tied the ‘nuptial knot’ to become husband and wife before taking the time to discover your spouse.

This alone explains why there is so much resentment when couples begin to discover how incompatible they both are in their love relationship turned marriage. Both feel trapped and condemned to a life of misery and unfulfilled desires, hopes and aspirations.

In many cases, this marks the beginning of many surprising discoveries about their ‘better half’.

Time that could have been spent asking important questions about likes and dislikes, favorite colors, your partner’s opinions on topics like in-laws, friends, joint savings account, number of desired children, mood swings, to name a few is spent on ‘enjoy life’ during the courtship period.

As much as you want to enjoy life with your beau during courtship, dating, sightseeing, being in company for as long and as much opportunity as you can, one very important thing you must do is find and get to know your lover. . real and true me asking questions.

Waiting until they are finally joined in marriage as husband and wife may simply be too late.

Dating is an essential season in a relationship that opens your eyes and feeds your mind as you get to know and understand your partner even as your heart is overwhelmed with love.

This way, you will have a better chance of building a longer lasting relationship as you will have had enough time to determine and determine the degree of compatibility that exists between the two of you.

This alone can save you a lot of heartache and disappointment for years to come if you make the mistake of entering into a marriage agreement with your spouse.

Dating allows you to determine the degree of your compatibility and also informs you whether to continue or end the relationship at whatever stage it has reached.

Marriage should be celebrated and life with your partner enjoyed to the fullest rather than having to tolerate each other’s remaining days of life imprisoned in marriage.
Consequences ensue and divorce is imminent.

Managing the period of your courtship well cannot be overstated. It is a good opportunity to do all the checks and balances, additions, subtractions, and equally gives you valid time to make the right decision and make the right decision in life about the relationship you have with your partner before entering a life. commitment together married as husband and wife.

To build a more lasting relationship, use the period of your courtship well: ask questions, get to know your partner and first determine the level of compatibility together.