A home full of love

With all my heart and with all my soul

With all of me

I say

Love you.

I choose to respect the gift that fate has placed in my life

I choose to surrender to the cosmos

and let the romance be true.

I choose to follow the light of the love we share

I choose to open myself to the love that is ours

and i choose to be in love with you

I choose to see in you

a real woman, beautiful, wise and awake

I choose to be here, as I am, in love

without fear

I am, as you know, in many ways,

Not of this world, I bring you love

As only you can become, I bring you the cosmos

the heavens the truth

The love of creating is love itself

We put our energy into everything we do. The environment in which you share your love life is one of the most important places to start recognizing that love is a priority.

Your home can celebrate love to such a degree that it holds a relationship together through difficult challenges.

Designing your home to include the essence of romance is a vital part of creating sacred love in your home. The environment in which a person lives affects his mind, his health and his heart more than anything else in his life. An evolved individual, living among thieves, will eventually take some of her energy. So our space is a vital step in the creation of sacred love. Here are some suggestions to improve your love space.

1. Be in your element

Create zones in your home where work, TV, cooking, and sleep are separated from intimacy and romance. Have a parent-only area, or place the TV in a TV room, not the family room, so you, your love, and the kids, if any, can sit together without being entertained (distracted) by the TV. .

2. Things have a voice

Be aware of the energy carried by objects. I have seen stolen goods, ashes of dead people, old furniture bearing the suffering of an elderly relative, and torture paintings placed in areas where love was meant to thrive. Antiques are wonderful, and some, even the cheap ones, have a wonderful charm. But if your love changes after buying an object in your house, or a new painting on the wall, keep in mind that these objects can carry very bad energy. In our busy lives, we don’t care much about the energy that things carry. We can go out, buy something and put it in our house without giving a second thought to the energy it carries with it. However, we can be greatly affected by that energy. Everything has a bigger story than its functionality, which means that things bring a certain feeling with them.

3. Love thrives where beauty is revealed.

All the science of romance starts with the environment you create. Each of us will view the qualities of this environment differently. Sometimes we need to consider this very carefully because when two people of different elements live in a home, one of them can be deprived of the space in which their heart and soul can feel at home. A Water person will feel completely unromantic and uncomfortable in a Fire person’s home. Compromise is not possible. Romance is the water element. Which means that even if you’re an ethereal person who likes the cool, clean lines of glass and concrete, your romantic area should be soft and cushioned. Try to take care of this romantic area by keeping it lovingly. Be careful going in there with shoes that have trampled the streets with all the rubbish. Be aware of the preciousness of the environment, and you will be aware of the preciousness of your love. (see later chapter on Compassion)

4. Thought travels through walls where words cannot pass

Beware of people who carry worry, anger and violence with them by allowing them to spread their feelings in your home. This home is sacred, and even though our homes are open to others, there are some people who wish ill on both of us. They are often relatives that you feel obligated to, but these gatherings are best held in public places if they are not fans.

5. Nothing affects the mind more than the environment in which it rests

Be aware of the effect of dark news, violent television, aggressive music, and bad attitudes on the space you have created for love. I have seen some spoiled people break into other people’s offices or homes, leaving a trail of the darkest energy behind them. They don’t care about anything other than their right to express their anger, and they certainly don’t take into account the impact of it.

6. Carefully consider the energy of the gifts.

I met a lady for a consultation and she was covered in expensive jewelry. She had broken up with her husband about 2 years before. I asked her about all these jewels and she informed me that her ex-husband kept giving them to her. She then went on to say how nasty, mean and horrible this man was, and how he wouldn’t leave her alone. Jewelry was her way of stamping her signature on every moment of her life. In a new relationship, she discards the seals of past relationships. Release your energy and romance for novelty. It’s like putting fresh water in the vase for the same flowers.

7. Speak the truth of love in your home

Notice how you speak. The words carry with them a completely different meaning. Words sit on the walls, on the cushions, on the ceilings. A household of an angry person feels angry long after his death. The clothes of a depressed individual carry that feeling. That is why you have to be so careful when buying second-hand items. A seller who cheats not only affects his own life by stealing from him, but also contaminates the goods he sells. Your words are an opportunity to refresh your home. Eliminate gossip, profanity, or negative ideas of hurting others. Make your home a sanctuary for romantic and loving thought. Beware of those you talk to on the phone who would curse and deny you, bruise your home and heart.

8. What you think about what you provoke.

Books are affirmations. On the spine of each book is a message. That book speaks to your subconscious. If you have recovered from alcoholism, then after you are done, pass on the book. Healing books keep you healing. Surround yourself with great books, the spines of which are a testament to your aspiration in life. A man I worked with read a biography every week. His main living room had the names of all the great leaders he respected emblazoned on the spine of that book. Rest assured, the books and their titles drive a story straight past your conscious brain and straight into your heart. That’s why my books are simple titles. They are actually working to manifest in your subconscious brain, without even reading the content.

9. The soul speaks in pictures

Photographs affect a home. Do you see more in a guru than you see in the eyes of your lover? Do you revere any statue more than the silken skin on the inside of your lover’s arm? Instead of worshiping icons of some distant religion or faith, spend a few dollars to have a picture of your lover, her dream, on the walls of your home. The soul speaks in images. Children’s images reinforce children’s awareness of their love. But this should never override or replace the image of your beloved lover. Photographs of family, parents and friends also have a place, but none should clutter up the space of love and intimacy, they are a good decoration for the television room.

10. Insist on respect for the sacredness of your home.

There are those who would put food on your pillow and not give a damn. There are those who would put their feet on your photograph. There are those whose children would run amok in your temple. You have the right to ask for and receive respect for the sanctity of your space. This is defending your territory. A lady I consulted received phone calls anywhere in her house, from people of all kinds of negativity. She did not know how to protect herself or her home from the intrusion of negative feelings, and as a result, she could not rest in her own home.

11. Value the Ceremony gifts.

I believe in the ceremony as a vital ingredient for a loving relationship. I believe in the value of mindfulness. However, I am not a big believer in big ceremonies, my thing is small daily events. Like taking off your daytime shoes before entering a house. Like putting things on tables instead of throwing them away. How to create rituals around cleaning and paying attention to where the towel goes after the shower. Like taking a bath before bed and considering others when it comes to my socks. I believe in the ritual of lighting a candle at dinner time and turning off the television while we eat. I believe in the ceremony of collecting things, and not in doing two things at the same time. These little ceremonies are how I create love in my space.

12. Create an altar in your home.

In Asia, there are very few homes without an altar. A place of prayer where memories of those past are deposited, shows of love, respect for higher powers. Such altars may be a simple cloth-covered box or, in the case of some I have seen, marble-lined rooms with gilded statues overseen and maintained by a full-time priest. It does not matter what the altar costs, it matters what it means and how much respect and devotion is given to its order, maintenance and care. My altar is often a small leaf that I picked up from the garden on the way home.

13. Your bed is a sacred space, treasure the privacy of it.

When I stay at a friend’s house and sleep in a spare bed, I can tell them a lot about the person who slept there before me. In hotels it is a disgusting reality, that people can sleep in your bed, one after the other, and you are next. Their hygiene, their thoughts and their suffering (on the negative side) can infect that bed and that room and invade your sleep. When you change relationships, change beds. Always keep your clothes fresh, it is a sign of the deepest self-respect.