The best ways to ask a guy to accept you are not said out loud.

That’s right, girls, I’m sorry to say, but you won’t be able to get out of this with words. However, what you can do is act in your own way. What is that old saying? Actions speak louder than works. Yes, that’s the one.

There are easier approaches. But none more effective. And this has been proven time and time again.

You see, the more we talk … the more we get upset … the more we ask … the more desperate we look.

Desperation is not good.

If he thinks you’re desperate, he sure won’t be interested. In fact, you will think you made the right move by ending the relationship in the first place. So let’s think about this.

Step one: grip

You’re probably pretty excited right now. That’s perfectly understandable, but it’s not the right mindset to get your guy back. It’s also not very healthy for you or your family and friends, so that’s where you should start.

Take it easy. Relax. To breathe. Yes, I know, yoga would help, but I’m not going to send you down that road. However, you get the idea, right? You have to take charge of your emotions and put a smile on your face. You have to be the one in control, not your emotions.

Step two: stop contacting him

I know this sounds crazy, but trust me, it’s the right thing to do.

• No more texting
• No more calls
• No more emails or stopping by.

Any. Any. I understand? This will start to drive you crazy, and that’s a good thing, because that means you will be the one in control. Until you get to this stage, he is in control and you still look desperate.

Step three: get out there and have fun

Nothing makes you more attractive to men than to see you happy and enjoying yourself. Sure, there are other ways to seduce a man, but not to attract him to you like a magnet in the long run.

Step four: play hard to get

When he calls you, do not accept what he proposes. Pretend you’re busy. Suggest that you are very glad that he called, and yes, it would be nice to see him sometime, but not now. You have something else at stake.

Keep doing this for a while and you’ll have him drooling again.

Not only that, but by now, you will probably be a much happier person. Happy means attractive!

I know it all seems quite difficult to handle at the moment, but you can do it. Start with the first step!