The art of dating and being considered a great lover involves behaving in ways that most men are not used to. The reason women are not familiar with these successful strategies is because most men do not know or practice them. 10 tips on arousal are provided to help you learn and practice what women are looking for. With years of experience as a psychologist working with couples and women, I have published for you some of her secrets that wake them up.

1) Dress well, stay clean and fit. A woman will always notice what you wear around the house and in bed. Don’t think a t-shirt and boxers will turn her on. Dressing well in your everyday life sends the message that you care about your appearance. Maintaining proper hygiene is paramount. Not only should you shower and brush your teeth regularly, but you should also make sure you are clean and fresh breath when planning to have a night of sex fun.

2) Women’s talk about sex can be very different from what many men like. Although there are some women who like to talk about direct sex like “I want to be inside you now”, most women like to talk about indirect sex like “I think you are beautiful” or “I want to make love to you.” Women tend to prefer subtle ways of letting her know that you want to have sex with her.

3) Don’t forget the rest of her body. To arouse a woman, always first touch, caress, kiss and / or lick parts of her body other than her “sexual parts”. Ask your wife what parts of her body she finds sensitive and start there. The more time you go without touching her sexual areas, the always benefit you.

4) Kissing is the first step in turning a woman on when foreplay is about to begin. Start kissing her slowly and start kissing her first on parts of her body like her neck, forehead, and cheeks. Don’t start kissing her deeply with French unless you’re sure she’s ready for a deep kiss. Kissing gently along with a deep look into your eyes is always a good first step.

5) One way to a woman’s heart is through her stomach. Although it is generally said of men, being a good cook and preparing your meals that you will enjoy can often wake you up later at night. Serve him a great meal. Whether it’s breakfast in bed or a late night snack, you’ll always be impressed when presenting your meal.

6) Indirect sexual contact can turn a woman on more than you think. Many men go immediately to a woman’s clitoris or move on to penetration. Indirect clitoral contact around her pubic bone, inner thighs, and outer labia will always excite her for deeper sexual foreplay.

7) Self-confidence awakens women. Boasting, arrogance, and arrogance never excite a woman. Instead, self-confidence is illustrated by understanding that she is more than a sexual object. Communicating this fact regularly will make you believe that you have confidence in yourself. By doing this regularly, you will feel more confident about exercising yourself.

8) Inject humor into your sexual foreplay. Women love a man who can be funny and comical before and during foreplay. This is not to say that you should do a stand-up comedy routine, but being comfortable being jovial sends the message that you enjoy their company.

9) Establish an atmosphere. Women really enjoy the sights, sounds, and smells. Simply dimming the lights, playing romantic music, and / or lighting scented candles can sexually stimulate your senses.

10) Listen, listen, listen. The most erotic thing for a woman is how well a man listens to her. Since women are social creatures, showing her that you are a good listener will always awaken her senses and send her the message you want more than just her body.

These 10 tips will work for the vast majority of women. These tips come from my years working as a psychologist counseling couples and women. Almost 90% of the women I have counseled have verbally expressed their desire to be treated by men in the manner suggested above. The more tips you can practice, the more likely you are to be seen by women as a great person and lover.