Many couples enter the world of swing looking for a threesome with only one woman. When they realize how difficult it is to achieve that goal, often the focus shifts to playing in pairs. Single women in the lifestyle are often called “unicorns” due to their rarity. While it can be difficult to have a threesome like this, it’s by no means impossible. Couples have several strategies they can use to end up in bed with that elusive unicorn.

Below is an overview of each strategy. Follow-up guides will be created for each strategy to give more detailed explanations.

swingers parties

It’s rare to find a single woman at a swinger party, but if you attend enough of them, you’ll run into them from time to time. Some of them are just curious, others are only interested in girl and girl, and others are interested in the coveted threesome. If your only goal is to have a threesome and you are not interested in foursomes and playing with other couples, then we do NOT recommend attending swinger parties. If you meet a single woman at a swinger party that interests you, then stay in the moment and involve her. If you’re hoping to have a threesome, you can’t be shy and expect the girl to make the first, second, or even third move. A single woman can practically choose who to sleep with at a swinger party.

Direct Approach (Bars, Discos and Parties)

As long as you’re in a vanilla (non-swinger) place for the night, you can directly approach the women you’re interested in. You don’t have to proposition the woman then and there, but after starting the conversation, building chemistry and rapport, in certain circumstances it may be possible to end the night in a threesome just like you would a fling. one night. Whether you want your female half to approach first or both of you to approach together is a personal choice, however we recommend that the male half of the couple not approach alone. Understand that if you follow this strategy you will get rejected repeatedly, but there are girls who are interested in experiencing a threesome and if you hook up with the right one when they are in an open state of mind and you do nothing to scare her off. or scare her, you may get the experience you are looking for.

female friends

Girl friends are an excellent source for finding girls to have a threesome with. The female half of the couple can talk to her friends and tempt them into a possible threesome. Plus, letting receptive friends know you’re looking for a threesome opens up the possibility of one happening. Maybe a friend isn’t available right now, but after a breakup she might be more inclined to explore and have fun. The male half of the couple can also share the desire with her friends. If one of these girls is already interested in him, she might be open to a threesome.

Individual Recruitment

If either of them finds a girl attractive, they can approach her with the intention of having a threesome. If it is the approach of the female half, she can be more direct. However, if it is the male half, the best option is to pursue the girl as someone you are interested in having casual sex with. After sleeping with the girl once, start teasing her for a threesome. If you bring it up first, you risk making her feel like a slut and only interested in her for the threesome. Many girls are more than comfortable engaging in casual sex and exploring new things with men after sleeping with them, but very few are as receptive to such ideas before they’ve been intimate.

online sources

Websites like Sexxy Mofo, Swing Life Style (SLS) and similar services have real single women looking for threesomes on their sites. However, those real single women are interspersed with even more profiles that are “fake” in the sense that they are men pretending to be women or women looking to attract couples and single men to visit their paid website or pay for a webcam. Understand that when you message these girls, there is a tremendous amount of competition out there trying to get their attention. If your profile and message don’t stand out from the crowd, you’re less likely to get a response. While using online services can result in threesomes, it is very difficult to do so. We recommend using online services to supplement your search, but it should not be your primary strategy.