On the surface, Fleshlight adult toys seem simple enough: an extension of your hand that feels a bit more like realistic sex, but not as big, bulky, and hard to hide as a blow-up doll! However, there are plenty of new discoveries to be made inside those little tubes of specially formulated silicone… if you’ve recently purchased a Fleshlight adult toy or are thinking about one, here’s everything you need to know about Fleshlight.
Buying an Adult Fleshlight Toy
Many portable anal/pussy simulators are called Fleshlights, although ‘Fleshlight’ is actually a particular brand name. If you’re looking to buy one of these toys, take a look at the adult toys for men section in general, don’t just look by name.
Look for toys made from Cyberskin or ‘realistic feel’ silicone – there is an amazing difference between these and standard old fashioned silicone!
You’ll also notice that some are made in the shape of a flashlight, while others have a flat base to help you ‘mount’ the toy on a surface for hands-free operation (“Hey look, no hands!”). Mountable ones can cost a little more, but you can get the same effect with a handheld one by placing it between the mattress and box spring, or between two sofa cushions.
Preparing and Using Your Fleshlight Adult Toy
Proper grooming can make a world of difference in how your adult Fleshlight toy feels. Here is the usual MO:
- Fill the sink with warm-hot water
- Remove the insert from the shell and sit it in the sink for 5 minutes.
- Repeat if desired, or for thicker inserts
- DO NOT use the microwave or boiling water
- Place some wipes nearby to help with cleanup – you’ll want to get the lube off your hands to get a good grip on your adult toy.
- Coat interior with water-based lubricant only; The silicone-based lubricant will react with the adult toy and melt it.
Once you’re ready to get started, try a few different ideas like:
- Using it as an extension of your hand as you would normally masturbate.
- Jamming the Fleshlight between your mattress and the bed frame for a doggy style simulation
- Alternatively, push it down between your sofa cushions to keep it in place.
- Putting your adult toy in a shoe for unusual angles
- Just hold it on a countertop or to the side of a sofa.
lantern cleaning
This takes a while; however, it is essential that this type of toy is cleaned properly, because the closed environment, heat and humidity are an ideal breeding ground for bacteria.
Run warm water through the Fleshlight after use and use a cloth and your fingers to do the initial cleaning. After this, use a specially designed adult toy cleaner and disinfectant to get your Fleshlight ready for your next adventure.
Fleshlight Stamina Training Units
These adult toys are apparently (!) designed to help men last longer in bed. When I first heard this, I envisioned a device that would somehow detect when ejaculation was about to occur and project a nude image of Roseanne Barr onto the nearest wall… but sadly, this is not the case!
The basic idea of the Fleshlight Resistance Training Unit is to simulate the feeling of a real lady’s tunnel of love as closely as possible, so that she ultimately becomes desensitized to the experience.
Works? Customers certainly say so! Some of the most glowing adult toy reviews you’ll ever read have been written about the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit. For example:
“I wasn’t expecting much, but I was really surprised. The Resistance Training Unit really feels good. It actually felt too good for me. I went into the thing. I was both shocked and in awe.”
“This thing is the most awesome masturbator in the world, I say it’s as good as or better than a real pussy! By working slowly with it (training) it helps to last longer… This thing is up there with the light bulb like up amazing inventions!”
“And it seems to work. I’m able to recognize the signs of an impending orgasm much better, and I can last a few more cycles now. Exciting news and something that wasn’t lost on her!”
Fleshlights and hand pussies in general are a fantastic addition to the world of adult toys, and a lot more complicated than they first appear!
