Hello beautiful, I hope you are having a day full of love! Today we are going to talk about one of my favorite topics, and that is relationships and how to attract your perfect match. If you’re already in a relationship, that’s fine, you can use these same strategies to attract certain qualities into your relationship that may be missing.

I have coached thousands of women from 6 countries around the world, and the first thing they want to talk about, regardless of culture, age range, or level of success, is relationships. It can be the relationship they had and didn’t want, or the one they don’t have and want, but it never ceases to be the subject that can bring the greatest joy and happiness, or unfortunately, pain and unhappiness, and that is relationships.

One of my favorite Tony Robbins quotes is that the quality of your life is directly proportional to the quality of your relationships. I believe this is true. So let’s put you on the path to having the relationship of your dreams.

First of all, it is important to identify exactly what it is that you are looking for. I think it’s crucial to make a list, so you can find your perfect match. I can’t tell you how many women I’ve coached come back to me after making a list and say, I found him, he’s everything on my list and more. Having a list serves as a map. It would be almost impossible to find a destination abroad without a map, wouldn’t it?

On this list, write down all the important qualities you want to attract in a partner. Be as specific as possible. I have had women put over 100 things on their list and literally attract the man who has all of these qualities. Also remember that if you are going to put a quality on the list, you also have to be prepared to be these things. What I mean by that is you can’t eat healthy and expect to be able to eat junk food all the time.

In your list, also include the feelings you want to feel. Write down some of the activities you want to experience together. The more emotion you associate with the list, the faster you will attract that partner into your life.

Once you have your list, keep it in a place where you can read it often. I also recommend sleeping with it under your pillow. Make a copy of this list and do something ceremonial. An example of this is, a few weeks ago I was in Maui, with Heather Porter, who you will soon hear as a guest star. We made our lists and on a starry night we went down to the beach, looked up at the stars, told the Universe we were ready, wrapped the lists in a beautiful floral lei, lit a tea candle and sent out the floating flowers. and light and heel offshore. It was beautiful.

You deserve the relationship of your dreams, use the list to attract that or attract the qualities you want in your existing relationship

The law of attraction is very strong, be the person you want to attract into your life. And always remember, YOU ARE THE ONE, be your own best friend.