The first is the first. First you must know that the number one opponent in this is yourself: if you have any prejudice towards white girls, you will have a hard time.
1. The first step to attracting white girls is to treat them like any girl. Asian guys that I have personally trained have had easy conversations with white girls simply because they were comfortable in their own skin, a huge piece of attractiveness.
Don’t be afraid to put your arm around them or in some cases give them a nugie.
The second thing is to know what they like in terms of culture, now I know you don’t want to search for them on the internet, so let me give you some short sound bites to use in conversations. Yeah, I’m stereotyping attractive white girls based on my experience so you don’t end up talking about something lame like your job or some anime she doesn’t know about.
2. Appearance and fashions are important to White Girls. So if you’re talking about the latest fashions, like Carrera Shades, True Religion Jeans, or the midnight screening of the latest movie, you’re IN.
For college, try to name a few video games like Rock Band, or even Call of Duty in conversations, then transition into some video games you know that she doesn’t. Some great TV series play by the same rules too, just don’t get too into all the Gossip Girl or Sex in the City talk. Just tell him you found it and wonder what makes it so cool.
If you’re an Asian guy and have NO idea what I just mentioned, google it or find a trending magazine. Hell, go read women’s magazines. They will tell you what happens. When you start a conversation with white girls saying you tried the latest iPhone, look at them and they will immediately jump into the conversation.
3. Hot White girls are usually active in their social life. That means they’re part of a dance team, a sport, or their local sorority chapter. The key is to find a “clique” of your own and be busy (or appear to be busy) on them. That will create a similarity mirror where she sees you as someone who achieves the same things she wants – this triggers the attraction. Remember, hot white girls don’t just sleep with random strangers. Many of them shortlist guys based on the similarity of their social habits. This is more of a long-term goal, but definitely make sure this happens.
4. White girls are relatively easy to ask out on a date. The usual options are those where they can “show off” their freshly styled hair, stilettos, and that bag that costs more than their part-time salary at Walmart. So movies (especially movie premieres) are big. Theme parks are another, and third for me is the most popular sushi place in the city. As far as my dating experience goes, white girls have never said no to them, so ask them out!
