Some of you probably love the thrill of the chase, talking to a female cougar and winning her over. For others, who may be more shy, you may prefer her to approach you. The good news is that cougar women generally enjoy actively seeking out attractive young men. Part of the reason for the cougar label is that cougars are not only beautiful animals, but also successful hunters.

So to get a cougar woman to approach you first (making everything easier for you), you shouldn’t need to try too hard. Here are some tips to help you.

1. Is she a cougar woman? If the woman is over 35, well dressed (often seductively), and without a wedding ring, she could be a female cougar. She will often have a confident personality and can seem like the life of the party.

2. If you are sitting with friends, smile and laugh with them. You will find that a Cougar woman is more likely to be attracted to you if you seem like a fun, laid back guy.

3. Try to make eye contact with the female cougar. Look in her direction and she should look back at you. When you look into her eyes, she smiles. She tries to do this several times. After making eye contact, she looks away, you don’t want to come across as creepy.

4. Dress to impress. Cougar women take care of themselves and are generally in good shape and well groomed. You should be too. Cougars may find flirting with younger men fun, but they don’t want a scruffy thug. Part of the appeal of dating a younger guy is that he is usually fitter and better looking than older men.

5. Choose a table where he can see you. It sounds obvious, but when you choose your table, make sure you’re in a place where it’s easy to make eye contact and let him take a look at you.

6. Body language. As you sit at your table or stand at the bar, use your body language to encourage her to come to you. Keep a good posture. This will help you look confident and make your shoulders look broader and more manly. Smile, it makes you seem much more approachable. Sit with your legs apart so you appear open and confident. Point your body at her. If you’re standing, make sure her feet are pointing in her direction. She will notice these things unconsciously.

7. Wear a good cologne. Take a friend shopping and get her opinion on choosing a good aftershave lotion. Women can be turned on by the scent and it can help attract them. Don’t drown in it, just splash.

8. Walk past her. Draw attention to yourself by walking past her. If she’s busy, you might have an excuse to cool off with her (this is the time for the cologne to work its magic on her).

9 Draw attention to yourself. Laugh, go to the bar for drinks if she’s there. Make him notice you.

10. Take action. Okay, so none of this has worked? You can still go up and offer to buy him a drink. Not all female cougars are super predators

11. Online dating. If all of this is a bit overwhelming, why not try an online dating site for cougars? There are several sites that specialize in cougar dating and you will find many cougar women in your local area who are available for dating. The great thing about this is that you can join for free and check out cougar profiles before you make contact. That means you can see photos and information before you start the chat. Even better, if you fill out your profile and add a few photos, you’ll be contacted by a lot of cougar women! This is probably the easiest way to get cougar women to approach you first. Try to provide as much information as possible to get the best results.