So your ex boyfriend has left you and you feel like… You can’t eat or sleep and all you do is think about him and feel lost. So why not put it and your constant thought about it to good use?

I know how you feel, I’ve been there: broken, trampled on, feeling like my world had ended. It doesn’t have to be that way for you anymore.

To get your ex boyfriend back, why not use the same skills you used to get him in the first place?

It all starts with the end result in mind.

Did you know that you don’t fall in love with someone when you’re with them? In fact, you fall in love with someone when you’re not with them. I bet you remember being up at night when you first met. Thinking of their happy and glorious life together. For a time you were very happy. Then you stopped thinking like that and your world fell apart. You broke. They stopped thinking about their wonderful future together.

You can use the same “dream” and to start attracting her ex-boyfriend back into her life.

The first thing you need to do is really figure out what you want with your ex. Then to answer the next question: how would you know you got it? Getting back with your ex – is that your bottom line? How would you know you had it? That is actually your bottom line.

If I call you tomorrow and tell you, are you back with your ex? She could only answer yes or no. She would have a ‘we’re together again’ criteria. That is the end result of it.

This criteria-based end result is what you need to imagine and play with your mind. You need to see the end result in as much detail as possible. Add as much positive emotion as possible to what you’re seeing, and then start watching the magic happen.

The more you visualize, the more ideas and hunches you will be given. You will have to act on theses as well. The world is eager to give you as many chances as possible to get back together with your ex. You just have to take them.