Ladies, are you getting over a recent heartbreak? Did the man you thought you would spend the rest of your life with walk away without even saying goodbye? If so, then you have two options. First, you can get on with your life, hoping to find someone as good as your ex. Second, you can get it back.
Of course, to get it back, you need to know what to do. You want to make sure that the tactics you use pay it back to you. Now, you have to be a little sneaky without being downright mean if you plan on earning it. So you have to play a little dirty, which means using psychological tricks that will get him back.
Dirty, devious and daring: 3 psychological tricks to get it back
It’s important to note that many people will say “don’t do this and don’t do that” when trying to get it back. After all, most people are hesitant to play dirty and use mind games to get an ex back but, believe it or not, you can certainly win them over. If you want to have a real impact on your ex, you have to play dirty. Jealousy can feed the body into action. And, if you want to get him back, you have to make him jealous.
1 – Go out with a friend of his
Many women would never dare to go out with a friend of their ex. However, if you’re looking to push the jealousy button inside your ex and win him back, you’ll certainly want to use this dirty trick. After all, you start dating a friend of his and he will get mad at you and ask what you are doing. Of course, for a nice comeback answer, you can ask him what does he care since the two of you aren’t dating anymore. Believe it or not, he will actually yell at you that he is still in love with you. All men get upset when the girl they used to go out with is seeing someone else, but especially if it’s a friend.
2 – Have your appointment in a place where you will be
When you start dating again, whether it’s with his friend or someone else, consider having your date in the places he’ll be. Believe it or not, it will get their attention. He’ll start to get jealous because you’re with someone else and not him… even though he told you he didn’t want to be with you anymore.
Now, while it’s important to have the date your ex is on, you still need to look good for the occasions. After all, if you don’t look good, what’s the point? Be sure to dress in your best outfit. Wear something I haven’t seen, which means you’ll probably have to do some shopping. What you are looking to do in your attempt to win him back is blow him away with your appearance and make him jealous by making him see you with another guy!
3 – “Accidentally” Send him an email/text
Now, once the date is over and it’s a new day, what you need to do is “accidentally” send your ex an email/text. What should this message say? You have to be clever with that, so you should text something like “Hey, it was good to see you too. I enjoyed my time with you. Hope we can do it again real soon! Have a great day.”
Before you even hang up the phone, it will ring and it will be him on the other line. He will wonder who that message was really intended for and find out how serious you are about him. Jealousy has reared its head again! It’s a great way to get it back without “meaning it”. Once the lines of communication have reopened, you can continue them.
Hook, line and sinker! And, before you know it, you’ll get it back!
