Your marriage is going through hard times, everyone goes through a phase like this in their marriage. However, let me emphasize that most of the time divorce is not the answer and one or both sides of the marriage simply give up and take the easy way out. If you are reading this, you are taking a step in the right direction. Please continue to research how to stop the divorce now and continue trying to make your marriage work. I will give you some advice that will help you in your marriage and in the closeness you feel with your partner. Hopefully, with these tips, you’ll be well on your way to repairing the damage to your marriage.

1 – To start you need to sit down with your partner and isolate the main problems. This will require communication, and lots of it. If you do something to stop your divorce now, make sure it’s communication. Set aside some time each day to not only talk about your problems, but also about your life in general, how your day was, or even starting with something as simple as saying what you had for dinner or what you did at work. Often couples who have been married for a long time do not take the time to talk to each other like they used to, many problems in a relationship can be related to a lack of communication.

2- Remember that if you are going to stop the divorce now you will need to rekindle that lost flame that you had at the beginning of your relationship or simply fan the fire that is already there. Take some time to show your partner that you appreciate and love them. This can be a simple gesture like a note in the morning or having dinner ready when they get home from work. If your partner knows that you appreciate them, they will in turn appreciate you and show it in a similar way. Consider the occasional “just because” gift or a bouquet of flowers. Don’t confuse appreciation with sex, I’m not saying don’t have sex, just don’t use it as your “just because” gift.

3 – Try to take your partner on some emotionally charged dates. You see all these movies where people fall in love in a matter of days during a horror movie or an action movie, you may think that these are all just movies, but actually there is a syndrome associated with it. When emotions are intensified, such as fear or excitement, people create stronger and more lasting bonds. Consider an amusement park or a thrilling adventure like whitewater rafting.