When there is a particularly traumatic event in a past life that leaves a karmic imprint, very often someone else is involved and there are unfinished business between you. When this occurs, both of you, in planning your next incarnations, can decide to create the opportunity to end that unresolved matter and clear the karma between yourselves. If you don’t, both of you will have to reincarnate life after life until you have solved the problem together.
Every person you have any connection to in your life is there for a reason, perhaps to clear karma or to remind you of your lessons in this life or both. It can be to help you on your spiritual journey even if you haven’t ‘met’ before. This applies to your biological family, to your friends, to your colleagues, many of whom will have kept you company for many lifetimes. Your mother could have been your brother, hunting partner, cousin, daughter. Your husband may have been your rival at work, your son, your teacher, etc. These relationships do not have to be karmic, where there is an unresolved problem or debt between you from the past or present, but can be based simply on love. It is not necessary to know the past lives you have had together, in fact, it is not always useful to focus on the past out of curiosity when there is a present to enjoy. Psychic intuition or past life regression carried out by a professional is beneficial when you find yourself in a situation that is causing you particular difficulty or stress.
There may be a pattern to all of your karmic relationships and it often has to do with power and control in one way or another. Just as you yourself can get into a karmic cycle that keeps you trying to learn the same lesson over and over again, it can also happen between two people or even a family group that both or all of you come to life to solve a problem. particular karmic problem between you that has been going on incessantly. The intention is always that in each lifetime through your mutual efforts and learning you have a clear balance between each other in the end, but this does not always happen.
People often come together in a relationship to solve a particular karmic problem and when that is done, they can choose whether to allow the relationship to continue or to separate, the work completed. If you have been in a partnership that has been particularly painful, there may be a catalyst that made one or the other of you decide to end it. Making the decision, taking control of the situation, may be exactly what it takes to balance the karma between you.
If you find yourself in a difficult relationship situation right now, whether at work or within your family, take a look at the patterns within that relationship and see if it could be karmic. If so, then one of you needs to do something to rectify the karmic imbalance, otherwise it will continue to perpetuate itself in this life or the next.
This is an excerpt from “Spiritual Wisdom”.
