Last night I had a very powerful dream. He was doing energy work on an elderly dying woman, helping her transition herself. As she worked around her body there was a demonic presence in her energy field and I asked her to leave her. Reluctantly she yelled some obscenities at me and left the field. I continued to clear the energy that was holding this woman back and then something amazing and miraculous happened. She transformed into a vibrant young woman and she got up from the bed she was lying on and came back to her life.

While walking along the river this morning, I reflected on last night’s dream in an attempt to understand the meaning and message it had for me. Suddenly I realized that this was the work I do. I work with people who are being drained by some negative force in their energy field. This entity can be powerful enough to cause its victim to shrivel, become sick, and even die. By removing such an entity from your energy field, you can have full access to your life force energy once again and return to your life.

When I speak of a negative or dark entity I am not necessarily referring to the narcissistic personality itself, but to what possesses it. I think back to a previous narcissistic relationship I was in and I truly believe that my ex-boyfriend was possessed by a dark force. When one is weakened by abuse, drugs, alcohol, or anything else, one is vulnerable to entity attachments. These are disembodied souls that attach themselves, like a parasite, to their host and have a physical experience through them.

It is quite possible that some of the behavior we have identified as “narcissistic personality disorder” actually stems from attachment to the entity. There is a difference between entity attachment and possession, as you see in the exorcist. Possession takes over the entire body where the entity’s attachment only shares space, creating a strong influence on the life of the host. There have been cases where a non-smoker suddenly feels the urge to smoke a cigarette, or someone may feel compelled to take a certain drug or drink. One may eat particular foods that they have never tried before or be prone to binge eating. When the entity is attached to someone, it is strongly influenced by it. Your behavior can change completely. He can become petty, violent, controlling, domineering, and manipulative.

When we live with or are in an intimate relationship with someone who has an attachment to an entity, we can also be greatly influenced by this entity. We can even become vulnerable to harboring entities ourselves through the weakening of our character. The same entity could potentially defeat both partners to the point of complete destruction of the relationship.

Most people don’t like the idea of ​​entity attachment. It’s too weird; too strange a concept to digest. It’s too much like the movies. However, it is a reality that we must consider when dealing with narcissistic personalities.

If you suspect that you are attached to an entity, you may not be able to do anything for your partner, but you can do something for yourself. You should either work on clearing your own energy field or have an experienced shamanic practitioner do it for you. Ask all unwanted attachments to go away. Starve the entity by fasting for a period of 5 to 10 days. This is a purification ritual written in the Essene Gospel of Peace. Most of the dark entities attach to us to have a physical experience. Since they no longer have a body, they love to indulge in all the pleasures of the flesh, including sex, drugs, drink, and food. If you give up all of these things for a period of time, they will go elsewhere to get their fix, and you will come out of the experience rejuvenated, purified, and ready to live your life again.

When it comes to entity attachment, it is best not to focus on the entity attached to your narcissistic partner. Because you could meet with extreme resistance. Can you imagine his reaction if you told him you think he might have an attachment, a psychic parasite? He will surely tell you that you are crazy and soon you will probably believe that you are. So focus on clearing yourself. If he shows interest, you can refer him to a shamanic practitioner and let the practitioner take care of the matter. I know a very good shamanic practitioner who had a man, obviously a narcissistic personality, living in his house with him. He ended up kicking the man out of his house. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped or doesn’t realize there’s a problem, regardless of the situation.

In my dream I was helping a woman with an attachment that, to me, symbolized all the women I work with who are caught in the narcissistic web of illusion. It could be the narcissistic entity itself that is bonding with the woman, bleeding her of her life force energy. My goal is to remove this entity from her life so that she can reclaim her energy. She is dealing with a parasite, a psychic vampire that feeds on her life energy. We must remove that entity from her field so that she is free of him. At this point, she may still feel a bit weak, but you can start to get her strength back and her life back.

This work is very powerful because it takes place on a psychic energy level rather than a physical or emotional level. We meet the vampire in his domain and drive him out of our house. We get our life back and the entity must find another source to feed on. Sounds familiar?

It would also make sense that those being drained by an entity would be disoriented, weak, and confused. This allows the host to be manipulated and controlled by the entity. If you are aware of his presence and evict him, then he must go. You can’t stay host to a victim you don’t want. Only those who are caught up in the confusion and madness created by the entity can continue to house it. Awareness is the key. When we are mindful, we are sensitive to what is going on around us and learn to see the confusing and manipulative world of the narcissist for what it is, unhealthy, dysfunctional, and even dangerous to our lives and well-being.

It was amazing in my dream how this withered old woman transformed into a vibrant young woman full of life force. This is the transformation we make when we go from victim/host to purging the entities that keep us enslaved in that role. When we shed those unwanted attachments and step fully into the light of life, we experience the same kind of rejuvenation and transformation that the woman experienced in the dream. We go from slowly slipping into death to being reborn into a new life, one well worth living.