There is a very logical reason why you should never use sex to attract your boyfriend. Unfortunately, a large number of girls make the mistake of using their bodies to attract their boyfriends in an effort to prevent them from dumping them. Sadly, these are the same girls who end up losing their guys fast. You will hear hundreds of stories of how the guy was always after her, but then dumped her as soon as she went to bed with him.
When a girl attracts a guy with her body, what is the guy really looking for? The boy has just found a way to satisfy his sexual hunger. He’s not really after the girl like she stupidly assumes. He just wants to satisfy her craving for some of her meat. He just thinks about this for a moment. If there’s a chicken that goes around saying it’s the tastiest chicken in town, guess what’s going to become of it? Before you know it, the chicken will become history! Is there any benefit to chicken being the tastiest in town? People are going to enjoy the chicken, but the chicken itself has no benefit in it. A girl who uses sex to attract boys will suffer a similar fate.
When a girl uses sex as bait, she will always end up attracting the wrong audience. She will become something like a fast food restaurant. A guy will come in hungry, eat all he wants, burp, and then rush off. He may come back from time to time if he is hungry and has nowhere to go. But if he is the ‘hungry’ type, he will know many good restaurants in the city. You can’t stop me from eating out. New restaurants offering new dishes will continue to pop up from time to time. You just can’t keep competing with them forever.
The only way to prevent a man from losing interest in you is to keep your body a “mystery” to him until he vows to never leave you. That commitment is called marriage. If a guy can’t wait to have sex until you marry him, never trust him, he’s looking for fast food. If he says he’ll leave you if you don’t have sex with him, just open the door and ask him to leave. You don’t need a guy who just wants your body and can’t respect you for who you are. Get rid of it as quickly as possible before you change your mind. You will be saving yourself a lot of trouble and heartache in life.
Just look at the most beautiful celebrities of this generation. Most of them couldn’t stop their companions from leaving them despite their beautiful appearance. What makes you think you can keep your guy by using your body as bait? Instead, wait for the right man who can wait to have sex until after you are safely married to him. Only such a guy will really respect you and he will also enjoy having sex with you. The pleasure that is postponed is always more intense. Use it effectively to his advantage.
