I think I scared him is something women say after they’ve gotten too strong on a man. Sometimes it’s hard to know how to moderate what you feel. You meet him and sparks fly instantly. It’s understandable why you would start thinking about what your future with him might hold. If you share that with him before he’s ready to hear it, the relationship may be doomed. During those early stages of dating, it’s pretty easy to scare a man to the point that he looks for the nearest exit and runs away. If you poured out your heart and hopes to him and now it’s been some time since you’ve heard from him, that’s not good. However, all hope is not lost. You can roll it back, but you have to follow a very specific set of rules for this to happen.
Every time a woman says, “I think I scared him,” she’s already dealing with the repercussions of her actions. It is not difficult to know when a man is walking away from you. Calls from him will become infrequent and he will be too busy to see you. You’ll wait impatiently to talk to him, and when you finally get the chance, he’ll be sullen and quiet. It is unmistakable and it is also the beginning of the end of the relationship unless you take steps to change it.
You have to act fast if you want to lure him back. There is really only a small window of opportunity for you to do so. If you allow too much time to pass, he will move on and all those intense feelings you have for him will have nowhere to go. You have to approach him again, but this time you will do it from a very different place. You’re not going to show him that you think you can’t live without him or that he’s the only man for you. You’re just going to be someone who enjoys his company and hopes to continue a friendship with him.
Call him and leave him a voicemail. It is likely that she is screening her calls out of fear that she is about to propose. Just give him a call and tell him that she would like to meet up for coffee just to catch up. Don’t sound desperate and try not to get angry when you call. This is your only chance to convince him that you’re not stalking him, so make it count.
Most men will respond favorably to a call like this if they have enjoyed spending time with the woman. You’ll agree to get to know each other, and when you do, you’ll look as fabulous as possible. Then keep the conversation about all things generic and don’t bring up your declarations of undying love from your last encounter. Let that slide into the past, where it belongs. He’ll see a calmer, more in-control side of you, and that will help him feel comfortable in terms of seeing you over and over again.
