Why do I always call him and he never calls me? You’ve probably been wondering this for a while. The scenario when a woman asks this question is quite typical. The relationship as a whole is really lovely. You two get along. He is charming, funny and very passionate. The problem comes when it’s time to set up your next date or when you just want to talk. He never makes the call. If you want to talk to him, it has become your job to pick up the phone and make the calls. It’s frustrating but there is a solution. You don’t have to keep wondering why he is challenged in the area of ​​phone calls. Change it. It’s not as difficult as you think.

The reason you seem to always have to call him is simple. You took on that role early in the relationship and now it’s hard to get rid of it. Think about it carefully for a moment. When you two started dating, was it you who made those calls? Did you do it because I wasn’t calling you? Have you ever been mad at him for not calling you more? If you answered “yes” to any of these, the calling problems in your relationship are as much your doing as it is his.

The simple solution is quite amazing. Stop calling him. Talking to him about it sounds more like a mature and reasonable thing, doesn’t it? The problem with this approach is that men simply can’t see things from our point of view all the time. While talking to him on the phone may be incredibly important to you, it’s not to him. He sees it as a way to talk briefly before seeing you in person. He is much more focused on those in-person meetings than talking on the phone. That’s why bringing it up will only serve to get you labeled a drama queen. You absolutely do not want that to happen.

If you stop calling him, you are sending a very loud and clear message to the man. He’ll figure out pretty quickly that you’re tired of being the one he constantly calls. However, it will take some time to change the pattern of calling your relationship. In reality, it may take a couple of days or more for him to realize you haven’t called before he does. He be patient and stay focused on not calling. You will be glad once the phone rings more often and he is the one to call you.