Writing this article has turned out to be quite a challenge.
You see, while there are certainly steps that need to be taken to give a girl a powerful and long-lasting orgasm, the actual nuances of those steps can vary so much from girl to girl that it can be very difficult to determine. to any particular formula.
Fortunately, however, I have enough experience under my belt to be able to make the distinction between necessary steps and personal preference. And in this article I’m going to share with you my basic “road map” that I use to give women amazing and powerful orgasms.
Step One: Build Sexual Tension
Put simply, sexual tension is making a girl “want you.”
It’s a simple concept, but in practice, it can be harder than you think to skillfully employ it to get a girl into an incredibly receptive and sexual state of mind.
Essentially, to build sexual tension, you have to shift the focus of her mind from whatever is going on in her world to sex. Specifically, sex with you.
This can be done in several ways. I often use light touches and sexual innuendos (or, if I know the girl well enough, straight up dirty talk) to really build up the sexual tension. Realistically, there are many ways to build sexual tension effectively, and a full and thorough (or even brief) discussion of them is beyond the scope of this article.
Step two: the body follows the mind
Once you’ve tuned your mind to sex, your next step is to do something similar with your body. We’re going to do this through foreplay.
Most guys go wrong with foreplay because they think it’s about sexual pleasure. It can definitely be that too, but before we get to that point, we need to “refocus” the body to get used to a sexual touch.
This means that you should start with light, fluid and provocative movements. Run your hands over her body. Trace the shape of her breasts with your lips. Let her feel your hot breath on her neck.
The point here is to get the touch receptors and nerves in your skin to “turn on” and respond to sexual contact. Again, there’s a lot more to it than this brief synopsis, but that’s at least the general idea.
Step Three – Provide the Stimulation That Will Bring Her to Orgasm
Believe it or not, if you’ve followed the instructions laid out so far and done the previous two phases really well, you’re already 80% of the way there. In fact, regardless of what you do now, your girl will probably have a powerful and long-lasting orgasm.
But that’s no reason to slack off now, is it?
There are many factors that come into play when it comes to giving a girl a powerful, shocking, mind-blowing orgasm. You should have a solid understanding of the female sexual anatomy, including how to find and use the clitoris and G-spot. You need to know the female “hot spots” (there are over twenty) to ensure you maximize her pleasure. You should have a decent understanding of what positions are best used for certain types of stimulation and how to position yourself for maximum stimulation.
That’s not to mention being able to read the subtle verbal and physical cues a girl will use to tell you what she wants, how to communicate effectively in the bedroom, and what her personal preferences are.
Fortunately, you’ve already done the “hard yards” so all you have to do is make sure she gets the stimulation she needs to “push her over the edge” and have her have a powerful orgasm. Be sure to focus on constantly stimulating her mind and her body, and be sure to eliminate any negative mental “internal dialogue” that she may be having.
If you follow these instructions and carry out the suggestions I’ve given you correctly, then I guarantee there is no way you can’t give your girl powerful, long-lasting multiple orgasms every night.
